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Thanks for these! Love the simplicity of that first book. Recently a random older man at a restaurant paid for our meal (super sweet) but then he asked for a hug from my youngest daughter 😬 She refused, I supported her, and we exited quickly. I think the guy was innocent but different generations just expect kids to give affection sometimes, so I love having as many ways as possible to tell my kids, "It's okay, you don't have to."

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My brother and I talk about this all the time: the generational differences when it comes to physical affection, and consent. My kids don't have to touch -- or accept touch -- from ANYONE, not their grandparents, not me and my husband, no one. Full stop.

I especially love Rissy No Kissies because it makes this boundary clear in a way that even really little kids can understand. There are a lot of great resources for elementary kids, but a lot of room for growth for the younger set.

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Love ALL these recommendations and can’t wait to get at least two of these in the mail to the grandkids!

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Oooh, which ones did you pick?

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Definitely getting Rissy No Kissies--very important book/concept--and Those Shoes (which I have read and love). May also pick up Oh No Gotta Go

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I wish I could put both those books in every home and classroom -- they are each amazing and powerful.

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In the end after reviewing all four, I purchase all four and had them shipped to my FOUR grandkids. They should arrive this weekend! My 11yo gdaughter will love Beast Feast even though she's not in the recommended age range. She loves weird animals, and she is smart enough to catch the plays on words. Thanks again for the recommendations!

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I love this! (And you're very welcome.)

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Right around the time we read "Those Shoes," we also picked up a copy of "Maddie's Fridge" by Lois Brandt. There are similar themes explored in both - though "Maddie's Fridge" centers food insecurity. I believe they're compatible. My daughter absolutely loves -and still asks to read (or reads on her own) - Brandt's book.

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Ooooh, I don’t know β€œMaddie’s Fridge,” but I’m putting it on hold right now. Thanks, ZM!

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